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Understanding the facts about CornaVirus how to stop the spread.

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stop the spread of coronavirus With the number of cases that are arising in Florida, Texas, Arizona, As the Governor in each state is saying that we are in a better place now, then we where in March and April.  As some of the public officials are stressing that we wear a masked when we in public, and wash their hands for at least 20 seconds,  and to control with social distancing.  Many people are not taking the warning.  They Guideline were put together, to help us stay safe also to stop the spread of Coronavirus, even with corvid19.   In the Beginning, when the Coronavirus pandemic began back in March, scientists didn't have the understanding and the knowledge of what this virus is.   Which demographic is being affected,   It started with the elderly demographic, so they encouraged everyone to get tested,   As states were implementing testing sites.  Seeing the curve of the spread of coronavirus has flattened. Starting the processes to reopen their states.  When pe

why we do what we do as a mom.

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mom does Being a mom comes with challenges.  As we nourisher our children to become who they are, as their educator,  nursing them back to health, when they are sick, guiding them in a way to be a better person. Be able to send them out in the world, with all the skills that they need to survive in the college world. Giving them the skills to study as hard as the can achieve the success that they are seeking.   In the major of their choosing. Seeing your children blossom into this person you might say your job is well done?  But in the back of your mind, they are still your little boys. As a mom creating the love in your home,  keeping their home tidy and clean, with a lot of organizational systems to keep it running smoothly. Excepting the role of a wife, mother, homemaker, educator.  That being said a mom has many hats, that she juggled very nicely.  be able to educate children on the proper ways of running a home, be able to manage their finances in a stress-free ma

The Power of Habit Why we do what we do in life and business.

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Powe of habit, goals There are many studies out there trying to understand the different individuals on how they do things.  Does your daily routine have something to do with it?  Are we born with it?  Is it in our genes? Scientists, haven't found the answer to with question?    They don't understand how we do what we need to do in life and business.   They consider learning more,  about habits,  how the effect of the cue they reward.  An Example of this,  Why do we always eat when we are not hungry?    How did you get your teeth so white?  Was it by brushing them?  We have to reprogram our brain,  it is combined with the habit, what cue you do it,   and seek the reward.  Understanding why we do this, and how we can make changes in our lives and in our business to create the success that you are seeking.  The golden rule with changing our habits is something that a life coach and a Coach on a football team concentrating on helping team players, and individuals in changing some

Goal Setting

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Setting, achieving goals How do you accomplish so much?   What is your secret?   How do you do this?   Where do I start?  Is Their a master plan that comes along with it?  No there isn't any master plan for setting goals that you are wanting to accomplished.   Just following the Six Basic steps, Bing able to understand the framework on who, what where, why, how. Who:  Determining who is going to be responsible for the tasked at hand.  Identifying the person that is going to completing with a plan of action for the goal at hand.    Having accountability when accomplishing the goal. What: Establishing the goal with detail when finishing results, that goes along with it.  When: Making the date of when you're going to begin to plan and when it is going to end.  It gives you a timeframe on when you are to complete it.  Where:  Determining the place what step are you going to be taking, with a plan to care it out.  How: Is defining what steps that you are going to be taking to comple

Have so many thoughts I want to put down in words.

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writing thoughts Millions of thoughts in my brain, why is it so difficult to put them in words and just writing them down in a blog post and make some kind of sense out of it.  I seem to be a happy person most of the time. I'm most grateful for is so many things that accomplished throughout my life.  I'm able to live,  with the air we breathe. Being a better mom, and be able to raise amazing boys, that are successful in life.  Guidance them through situations that arise helping them understand how the process works,  and you can arise from it with grace and unconditional love that goes along with it.  To be this amazing mom, to bring these amazing boys into the world, and be successful in their lives.  Giving them the guidance with the unconditional love that they need to grow in their personal lives. There are so many things that I want to accomplish, with my life.  To be able to manage my time in a way that reduces the distraction in my life, and be more productive in update

I thought I was a writer instead of a blogger.

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writer I always wanted to write a letter to someone that I wanted to share my life experiences, One time be able to write a book about my family secrets.  There was a time life got in the way, for many years,  I never had the chance too. I know somewhere I had a voice I wanted to share my thoughts, with my reader and become this famous blogger, and keep all kinds of money with blogging.   And turn my blog into a successful business one day.  Then I realized that I was just comparing myself to others,  I tried all the strategies that other bloggers have master over the years,  and there tips that they shared.   Some of the tips were helpful,  some of them were difficult to keep up with.   I was spending more time on the computer figuring out what was best for me, and how I was going to be managing my blog in a way that blogging is so much fun, working a lot smarter instead of harder.   With all the books that I have read before I took the plunge with starting my blog,  Changing my conc

American Dirt.

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Fiction I started to read the American Dirt last week, I was thrown between the mixed review that I received about the book.    I wanted to see what the conflict was all about, understand why opera decided not to feature it in her book club. As I started to read it.  I wasn't quite there on which side my review was going to be.  As I continued to read more of the story my feeling didn't change a bit.   It has a little bit of a similar recent incident of a black man telling us that He couldn't breathe and watching him die,  As a mother that has brought in and showing her son about the drug tracking that was going into her city. With a loving husband that was a journalist, Seeing all of this.  It was confusing to me.   Knowing this was a dream of her to selling all kinds of books in her book store, and be able to live the finer things in life.   But it was a fairytale of comfort,  Knowing that she was going to be selling more books, that she needed to stock up. of some of her

Finding justice for all human kind.

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General It is appalling where this world is coming too.  This isn't the world that I wanted to raise my kids in.  War in different countries and people are murdering each other.  A most recent one is a Minnesota police officer kneeled on the back of his neck and suffocated George Floyd to death.    As the other officer standing in front of him as he cried out he couldn't breathe.  As he was taking his last breath.  As they were called by the convent store worker for paying with a fake 20 dollar bill, Just for a pack of cigarettes.  As everyone is calling for Justice for George Floyd.  Black lives do matter.  Why don't the police live the training they receive when they join the police force.  Instead of taking the life of a to incent person.   As everyone in different parts of the country has protested in getting the justice that George Floyd's family is wanting.    I'm having a hard time excepting this in America,   I was raised to respect law enforcement, And comp

What looks like Crazy on an ordinary day

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Fiction/ Love Story What looks like crazy on an ordinary day:  It an African American Woman Literature Breaking new ground of a playwriter  With the debut of a novel that makes you crackle and laugh of life, move the reader into crackling into tears.  It is a beautiful love story,  When into publication in November of 1998 by harper perennial when the first edition was printed in 1998.    A  Fiction novel, Pg. 244 After Decades of elegant pleasures with use living among the Atlanta Brothers and sister with the best of clothing and the biggest dreams.  Ava Lies Temporarily returned home to Idlewild, With her famous career and power plans smashed to bits by cold reality. She images it was the end instead of the beginning.  IN the ten plus years, Ava left all the problems of a big city behind.  It came to a roost in the sleepy North Michigan community. With the Ordinances  once drove her away and family who sorely need her in the faces that bring up a lot of  troubles and tragedy,  One un